27 December 2015

Fancy a natter? | Digital Detox



It's been a while crocodile since I last truly checked 'in' on social media, without realising over the past couple of months I slowly took a digital detox. Life as per usual has a habit of completely switching course and serving up a different turn of events. Falling ill with a virus that saw me signed off work for a month (yes, you are all invited to my pity party) and come to terms with both my grandparents being really, really poorly made me reconsider everything. In short, the real world kicked in.

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I decided to retreat from blasting my thoughts on twitter and picture 'perfect' life on instagram - and take a digital detox. Ironically as someone who works 9-5 in social media, it was refreshing to not share everything with the world. In fact my jaw began to drop of how unsocial media savvy the world is.

I may joke that Matt (and my brother, and yeah ok my dad) kid themselves as being the ultimate instagram husband, but I truly relished taking time out to enjoy my birthday celebrations at Sketch and a whirlwind weekend away in Brighton without feeling the need to instantly share. Equally, I couldn't just type a tweet how full of sadness and the dreaded worry I felt when my grandparents were in and out of hospital constantly, because that's just well... weird. 

Or how utterly pissed I was at having a completely ridiculous virus that had me bed bound, cancelling all the super exciting festive dates I had penciled in with friends, as well going MIA on the fun projects I had goin' on at work. 
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It did however - which is even more ironic - confirm in my mind that that my blog for me is nothing more than a hobby. It's a no frills, online journal. I don't particularly care for page hits (shock!) or compare myself. Basically, it just doesn't faze me. Forget the FOMO and make it more of the YOLO. I'm so proud that many of my best pals (shout out to Corrie, Kate, Laura, Michelle) have carved out their career from blogging and are reppin' the online world with my highest respect - it's just not my bag, I'll leave it to the pro's.

I always refrain from discussing blogging (mainly because it's so bloody boring, just get on with it without the huffing 'n puffing) but I really resonate with Kate has to say in her blog post here, granted I would have added in more swear words, but then again she is classier lady than me. Then go read my work wife Nat's post about sharing your true selfie.

And for those of you, who have no interest in blogging or social media (or you're my mum or gran), ignore this post. Normal blogging should commence soon! Prepare for the overload.

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5 comments

  1. Bbygirl <3 here's to more evenings/mornings/times from other universes full of our worthy chatter. xxxxxxx

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  2. I'm planning a digital detox in the new year - not sure how long it will last for but sometimes it's nice to do things and not document / share it all? Most of my non-internet friends don't have IG or Twitter and I think we mutually find it all v weird!<3 x

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  3. I totally get this. While I am sometimes in awe of friends who have managed to make a career out of blogging, I'm really glad that I'm not tied to the blog. I LOVE blogging but it's nice to know that if I decided to take a few weeks, hell even a month off the old blog then it won't affect me financially at all. I know what you mean about putting life into perspective. I know all too well what it's like to have a very poorly grandparent in hospital. I liked having the blog to put my thoughts out there when my grandad passed recently, and it reminded me how much I like the journal aspect of blogging. It's nice to know that people read it - but for me, like you, it's not about the hits, likes or comments anymore! :)

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  4. Great post, Sarah! I usually don't use social media much when I'm at my happiest. Same when I visit my family- I can go a whole weekend at my mum and dad's with not a single photo taken. I decided to completely start again with blogging a few months ago to make it just for me, and it's so much more fun. x

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  5. I could do with a digital detox! I've taken to keeping my phone upstairs whilst I'm watching TV in the evenings cos I realised I was only half watching things! So glad you're feeling better, maybe you can have some belated Christmas celebrations?

    Chloe X
    newgirlintoon.co.uk

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